from Lillian Faderman,
To Believe in Women
(New York: Houghton
Mifflin, 1999)
p. 10
Such desires demanded that they
break into of the "masculine"
public sphere, claim it for their own, and thereby neuter the notion of
gender-appropriate spheres. However, many one leaders who were particularly
effective in the nineteenth century strategically disguised the fact that
gender was a concept with which they wished to dispense. If, as Judith Butler
has argued, all gender is performance, most of the heroes of this book can be
said would be to have performed the role of "woman" while conducting
their battles to invade the public spaces belonging to men.
These women also recognized that
the category of gender was artificial
and ''as changeable as dress," as Carroll Smith-Rosenberg phrased it with
regard to modernist women. But they were quite the reverse of certain female
inverts of the working class in their day, who claimed men's privileges by
literally changing their dress and traversing the world in men's drag. By
donning women's drag (both literally and figuratively), many of the pioneers
concealed their intent to claim male privileges. They believed that they must
perform "woman" publicly in order to change what "woman"
meant. Yet in private, traditional gender notions had little meaning for them.
It
was in fact these women's secret understanding of the sham of gender roles that
fueled the movements that eventually gave women the vote, the right to a higher
education and a profession and the power of influence over public policy. But
because most of them believed -with
justification -that their society was not ready for unalloyed radical
approaches, they often argued that changes in woman's sphere were necessary not
because women were just like men and gender was an absurd notion, but precise1y
because women were different from men. With essentialist arguments - which
their own lives patently contradicted - their strategy was to proclaim that
women's special gifts were desperatley needed in the muddle of nineteenth- and
early twentieth-century society. For example, they claimed a place for females
in politics by insisting that women should have more say in public policy
because they were "morally superior" to men.
p. 178
Protests were predictable and
were generally meant to dissuade and mortify. One critic, for example, claimed
in The Ladies' Companion that the only women who would want a
serious education were "mental hermaphrodites" and
"semi-women." Another
declared in The Religious Magazine that the "principles and
design of Mount Holyoke Female Seminary" were deplorable because the
institution would
create "characters expressly formed for acting a manly <sic> part upon the theatre of life. ...Under such
influences the female character is fast becoming masculine." Gender
inversion was consistently the great fear of those who abjured serious
education for women.
p. 188
Wenkebach's gender inversion was
accompanied by a rejection of men as romantic objects. As a student, she was
"the center of an adoring crowd of
enthusiastic girls." As a professor at Wellesley her loves included Alice
Freeman, who was Wellesley's president.
When Freeman married,
Wenckebach's biographer observes, "the blow was a bitter one. [Wenckebach]
was irreconcilable and went ding as to the wedding as if to a funeral,"
though in later years she formed a dyad with Margarethe Muller, a colleague in
Wellesley's German department which lasted until Wenckebach's death, in 1902.
Pioneering academic women knew
that they were accused of gender inversion by those who opposed higher
education for females yet since they deplored femininity; they saw its opposite
masculinity; not as undesirable but rather as consisting of attributes that
permitted the freedoms they coveted. In "The Womanly Woman," a one-act nineteenth-century
satire that made fun of those who feared the educated woman, Rose Chamberlin
presents a university student, Thomasina (or "tomboy"), who comes
onstage wearing a "neat cut-away coat; her billy-cock hat askew, smoking a
short pipe, and cracking a whip." When
Tomasina offers to help the silly, feminine Angelina adjust to
university life, Angelina responds, "You surely cannot think Thomasina that I could condescend to receive
information and instruction to my conduct from an amphibious -at least -no not
amphibious, I mean carnivorous -no -I don't –dear me what is the Word? [hermaphrodite?] -oh I know -from a she
maleish creature like yourself?" Thomasina responds, with only
partial sarcasm: “Many thanks for the compliment my love."
There is no question about whose
side Rose Chamberlin is on. She
concludes with a disgusted narrative explaining that the dainty Angelina
manages to Continue at school though "she maintains the character of a most
womanly woman –throughout her college career – by carefully eschewing even the
pretence of study – and keeping up her admiration of the male sex. “The true
Womanly Woman” illustrates that for commited college women of Chamberlin’s
generation, not only was higher education an escape from the limitations of
womanhood , but a rejection of attributes that were considered feminine – that
is, an “unsexing” was seen as being crucial to the success of their academic
endeavors.
For several decades women like
Thomasina were generally not called lesbians or homosexuals, though their
critics sometimes hinted at abnormality. In an article in The American
Journal of Heredity in the 1890’s for instance such women were accused of
“being more or less lacking in normal sex instincts.”
p. 190
Smashes between female students
were encouraged by the rituals romance in which they engaged. For example,
women's college dances in the late nineteenth century did not include men,but
they did include dates. One student (usually an upperclassman) would call for
her date with flowers or candy in hand; sometimes she would wear a tuxedo and
her date would wear a gown, and always she would take the lead in dancing and
would act the part of a gentleman. Letters and diaries of students of the era
often suggest the practice between them of a kind of amour courtois,
as Taiana Rota describes it in her work
on Mount Holyoke College,
Much more significant
than these romantic rituals, however, was the fact that these students shared
the excitement of their pioneering endeavors in education. In the absence of
male distractions, they could dare to see one another as heroes and objects of
intense admiration rather than as rivals. At coeducational colleges also,
female students in the nineteenth century were likely to fall in love with each
other. They took each other seriously, while the male Students were often
hostile to them, as a popular Cornell song of 1890’s shows: "I'm glad all
the girls are not like Comell women; /they’re as ugly as sin and there is no
good within `em”
p. 200
To prefer dissecting animals to
hemming skirts meant not only that Thomas was refusing to act like a young
woman, but also that she was not a woman in the era's conception of the
term. Women would "naturally" prefer domestic occupations. Yet if she
was not a woman, what was she? A new answer to that question, based precisely
on a female's refusal to accept her society's construction of womanhood, was
being devised by the sexologists at just that time; but for now, Minnie did not
have to be locked into any identity.' She could thus exuberantly advise herself
in her 1872 journal, "Go ahead! Have fun! Stop short of nothing but what
[is] wrong and not always that)! Never mind if people call you 'wild,'
'tomboyish' 'unladylike,' 'masculine.' They like you all the better for it
end." More important, she had discovered what men of her class valued
among themselves -what brought the kind of respect too deemed worth having. Her
"one aim & concentrated purpose: she decided with excited
determination, would be to show that a woman "can learn, can reason,
can compete with men in the grand fields of literature & science &
conjecture that open before the nineteenth century."
Thomas vehemently
rejected the role of woman, yet she felt that
she must achieve success at least partly for the sake of womankind. Only
through professional success could she change the meaning of
"womankind" to something grander than what it seemed to her.